jeffbear63

Exploring this new service... this looks intriguing.

My name is Jeff. Age 44 at time of writing, height 6ft, weight 215 pounds.

Leather bear who is out exploring his kinky side.

I have both dom and sub sides, enjoy being Sir Jeff to some, boy jeff to others. Depends on the chemistry.

I currently live in Phoenix, Arizona and have spent my adult life living between southern Arizona (Tucson and Phoenix) and the Denver, Colorado area.

Trained as an astronomer, started doing computers right after college "just for a bit" and still in that "bit" part 20 years later.

I could list a laundry list of things I like and don't... I can sum it up by saying most things I've tried I liked, a few I haven't, and the list of things to try and fantasies to live out is long. I've found (so far) I'm not a pain pig or get off on humiliation. When I sub, I enjoy giving my entire focus to serving the dom and earning his praise. When I dom, I want a sub to give me the same, though I certainly understand pain can be a reward (*smile*).

What am I seeking?

To fully connect with the leather community. Not so much the contests, the "IML Circuit", the stand and model form of S&M--no offense to the folks that is important to, it's just not what I seek. I want the deeper connections, the building of trust, the primal moments of men encountering men where there are few boundaires, and to build longer term friendships, mentorships, and close/intimate connections that exceed the "you're hot, let's play right now, that'll be just one time".

I am seeking mentors to hone my kink skills, the help me deeper into the community.

I hope to find a man I'm willing to kneel for, to submit to, for a longer period of time. A man who is interested in more than how I can get him off (though I fully expect that too). He will need to understand my life is complex and at times busy. He will not get my attention 24x7, and I'm not seeking to live in a cage at the foot of his bed.

I also hope to find a man willing to kneel for me, give himself to me in many ways. His body and sexuality would be mine to use, guide. Our prescence in each other's lives would enhance both. And the same 24x7 comment applies--there is no cage at the foot of my bed.